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FireDitto [2008-12-17 05:53:01 +0000 UTC]
Don't search for a friend.
But don't hide away, either...
And one day, they will pop out at you...
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nonnihil [2008-12-07 19:36:52 +0000 UTC]
Something similar happened to me, in 5th grade I had two best friends, they turned on me and all of thier friends did aswell. They lied, they never respected me and I treated them like gold. After that, I did not have any friends on middle school. I'm in high school right now and still, I feel like I do not have any TRUE friends.
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ToxikkWords [2008-12-05 05:55:38 +0000 UTC]
Wow... This makes me so glad I let go.
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Frogger277 [2008-12-04 21:00:21 +0000 UTC]
Friends come and go, I'd really want a good friend. But it seems like you're all just hiding out on the internet! There's no one here in "real life".
I chose to go to a different college from my friends because I didn't think that they would bother with me when I left them. After all, the only conversation I had with them was for me to help them with their work. It's sad, they really didn't bother with me. And I haven't met a single friend in college, I've been here for over a year now. I didn't think that the kid who sat there and ate lunch by themselves didn't exist. Holy crap, that's me!
Well, best advice. Fall in love. It's everything you could ever need. I hope it happens.
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Lolitia [2008-12-04 17:33:33 +0000 UTC]
Your not alone hon, we're here.
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SareTheFish [2008-12-04 15:35:57 +0000 UTC]
Don't close yourself off to people, just don't let people use you
I lost all my high school "friends" because all they wanted to do was use me and they were never there for me. I picked up my boots and kept going though and I've met some great people.
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LadyLuck89 [2008-12-04 14:17:36 +0000 UTC]
GOD this used to be my life.
The only reason any of my friends actually wanted to talk to me for the most part in HS was because they wanted money or something else. I know what you are going through. It wasn't until my senior year did I make REAL friends other than my cousin.
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Otterbane [2008-12-04 09:25:51 +0000 UTC]
How do you stop it before you get to 25? I don't really want to keep doing this much longer.
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HarlequinKnight [2008-12-04 09:23:10 +0000 UTC]
Things have a horrible habit of repeating themselves, don't they?
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lullednightmare [2008-12-04 07:41:27 +0000 UTC]
-sigh- I can agree to this more and more every day...
I guess, all I can say, is to not shut yourself off from others like I have... just, try and keep your trust open a little bit, and you'll find a friend that will always be there for you while you do the same for them...
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Palandur In reply to Sophie-sama [2008-12-08 21:06:09 +0000 UTC]
If they are friends, they will help you stand until you grow strong enough to stand by your own, and even then they will stand nearby to catch you, when you stumble and fall.
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Sophie-sama In reply to Palandur [2008-12-09 19:02:14 +0000 UTC]
they always let me fall, cuz they dont notice me, when falling...i dont know when the time will come, for them to catch me...
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Palandur In reply to Sophie-sama [2008-12-11 22:37:56 +0000 UTC]
Sorry for the question, but: Why the heck do you call them friends then?
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Sophie-sama In reply to Palandur [2008-12-12 16:22:54 +0000 UTC]
i have to...they call me their friends...i think sometimes i need some attention too...it's not their fault, if i fall, so they cant notice
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Palandur In reply to Sophie-sama [2008-12-13 19:46:04 +0000 UTC]
I think they should notice when you fall...
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Sophie-sama In reply to Palandur [2008-12-14 16:31:10 +0000 UTC]
i hope they will, when i need them to...
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Roselyn-May [2008-12-04 07:40:06 +0000 UTC]
<3 you're not alone. I promise.
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