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Oh my god, ST.
My deepest sympathies for your loss. ;< I don't even know how horrible it could be, but I have a vague idea. >.<
I think they would've wanted it to be this way, if somebody had to go.
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Secret Teller, I can't even begin to imagine the way you're feeling.
You didn't make that truck swerve though.
It's not your fault.
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It is called a car accident because it isn't always someone's fault.
It was an ACCIDENT. It isn't your fault. You can't have known anything would happen. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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I'm not sure if saying, "It's not your fault," is really at all helpful, or that it's even something you want to hear. I don't think I would.
But I don't think there's anything I can really say. Just..
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oh no no no it is not your fault, it just happened to be your parents time to go is all.
im sorry you had to lose them that way though, and i hope you heal soon. i dont know what its like to lose a parent and i cant imagine the pain you must be in but we are here for you
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It's not your fault, hun. These things just happen. We all have to leave this world one day or another, and if not this, I'm sorry to say, it would've been something else.
I'm very sorry for your loss. 
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I'm so sorry ST. It wasn't your fault
if you need someone to talk to, let me know.
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You can be sorry it happened but really PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE know that blaming yourself is pointless. You're not all powerful, you don't know everything, you had no idea this would happen and you can't control everything. It's horrible but your parents don't blame you, don't blame yourself.
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This is possibly the most heart wrenching secret I've ever read... ST, it's not your fault. It's not your fault that the other driver swerved, it's not your fault that your vehicle was hit, and it's not your fault that your parents didn't survive. Please, if you aren't already, please go see a counselor. You shouldn't ever feel guilty because of what happened.
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www.givesmehope.com
oops... lol
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I don't know how to do the "hug" emote, but I really would hug you if I could
And it isn't your fault, you know. I don't know the situation at all but it isn't. Even if you somehow literally forced your family to be on that road, you didn't force the truck to hit you. I'm not saying you didn't see it, but it happened too fast for you to do anything. I was in a fourwheeler crash with a friend once and I knew, I KNEW what was about to happen. It was just like I had this voice scream it in my head a moment before we crashed that we WERE going to crash, I can't explain it, but I tried to tell my friend/the driver to stop but there was no time. If that was just s fourwheeler, then I can't imagine how much faster a car crash would be.
Fate has a funny way of doing things and I've not lost both my parents but I lost my mother and I know that, while losing a parent is the worst thing that can happen, you will be a hundred times stronger than you could ever imagine because of it. And that would go double for you.
Maybe you were meant to get that strength, who knows.
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i am really sorry for your loss.
but the most important thing you need to know is that you are not alone and it is not your fault.
we have all lost some loved ones, one way or another. you just need to believe that everything happens for a reason, and your survival means you still have something to do in this life.
so go do everything you want and make your parents proud.
all the best,
-K
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It can't be your fault, ST. You didn't know what would happen and even if you saw it coming, people freeze in times like that.
I'm so sorry, though.
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It ain't your burden ST,accidents happen. So don't feel sad,your parents I'm sure wouldn't want that
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I'm so sorry, ST. 
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ST, please don't blame yourself. This was not your fault. How could anyone have known that the truck would've swerved? Time heals everything, all the way, true, but it will eventually. Once you're over your guilt, you'll be a much stronger person.
Stay strong ST.
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It was not your fault, ST. Not in any way, shape or form is it your fault. It's all completely on the truck driver's head for not staying in his own lane. Survivor's guilt is a horrible, wretched, agonizing thing sometimes, but please try to remember and remind yourself that there is no possible way the crash was your fault. Bookmark your secret, so you can see the chorus of people telling you this any time you need to be reassured.
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Secret Teller, all I can say is that I really hope you don't blame yourself. You can't see the future; you can never have known what would happen. Your parents love you, and by constantly reliving the guilt of this experience and letting it hold you back, you are not living the life of freedom and happiness your parents would've wanted for you.
Remember them, but let the guilt go. Free yourself, and live your life happy for them
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Your parents won't blame you, ST. You didn't tell the truck to swerve. There is no way it was your fault. <3
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Aww...
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I really love your signature.
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