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Published: 2012-01-21 21:45:56 +0000 UTC; Views: 2448; Favourites: 72; Downloads: 16
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Oh here we go, this is when the butthurt really starts.There is a difference between beating the hell out of your kid for no reason, and actual corporal punishment.
Corporal punishment, I've gone through it, and dammit, I am glad I did, I always treated my teachers, my betters, and everyone with respect. I am the one to shake someone's hand, and call them sir or ma'am. It's who I am. Why? My dad and my grandfather, and my Uncle, all marines, every single one of them RESPECTABLE PEOPLE OF SOCIETY, weren't afraid to smack me around if I did something stupid.
Kids nowadays? Brats, every single one of them are brats.
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I think the same. Spanking has recently been made illegal in my country and I'm incredibly pissed about it.
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Eh, depends on the severity of the situation.
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Wow, fuck you dude.
I hate spankings you know. They're hurtful.
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I agree. I mean, I don't support over-the-top punishments or slapping the cheek, but slapping a ruler on your palms won't destroy your life. Yeah, your gonna have small scars from it (like me) but I learned from it. I learned never to lie (cuz I swear, my dad was a natural lie detector {plus, he's been in the South Korean Special Forces. They train you like animals there}) and never misbehave and never be bratty. It's like blacksmithing. To make a sword sharper and stronger, you have to temper the steel. Kids should not grow up to be delicate snowflakes who thinks the world revolves around them. In several years, they'll be heading to the real world. They don't need damn molly-coddling.
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Eh, I don't. I know some people who say they got spanked and it didn't affect them negatively (or at least so they say), but those people were... I guess.. The kinda people who just aren't very sensitive to humiliating or physically threathening situations and who barely ever obeyed anyone as a kid so adults would lose their nerves around them. So I can kinda understand. Perhaps it just isn't bad for everyone because people are all different individuals.
I was such a nice and obedient kid who never caused trouble that I neverΒ got spanked myself, but I indeed got threatened with that if I ran away from home (which was dangerous and worried my parents). However, I always had a very deep feeling that it is wrong, that I or any other kid could never, for any reason, deserve such a humiliating and physically painful punishment. I still think so and I do not entirely know what to think about these adults who say they were spanked and it was OK with them.Β I am SURE that I would not have been OK with it. I always found it really humiliating and violent, and I could not been able to trust any adult who'd do this. Shit, I don't think it's okay for adults to be scary and potentially violent around their own damn children.
Besides, what important life lessons does any kid even learn from being hit/spanked? You do a thing, adult inflicts some pain on you. Only teaches one to obey out of being afraid and not because of logic. I don't have to deal with kids probably ever bcs I don't want to have them, but I guess I'd just prefer logically explaining them why they can't do something so they can be genuinely motivated to not want to do the wrong thing. I kinda don't believe in thisΒ whole barbaric "let's hit people to make them understand" thing because of its perfect lack of logic. Also saying all kids are brats and inherently bad themselves just sounds like something one would say when they don't understand other people's emotions at all. Every behaiviour has a psychological reason, and good behaiviour can easily be motivated and strengthened, and bad behaiviour lessened through ssssooooooo many ways that causing physical pain really just doesn't sound worth it.
Also, nearly everyone I've met who thinks hurting (yes, corporal punishment hurts) children for any reason is OK, has usually been kinda really insensitive about other people's emotions and acted like a human brickwall. MIGHT be a bit of a generalization but that's just my observation. It's impossible to explain people like this if something they did to you hurt you because they literally don't see why should they care, even if they're your friends. This is something I find highly unpleasant and annoying. But can't blame them since apparently they just had such a bad upbringing that was all about having their feelings invalidated and being treated like literal pests instead of human beings by adults. Their emotional intelligence always manages to be so poor that even a friggin' autist like myself has a better emotional intelligence and observance and consideration of others' feelings. Which is an important social skill btw.
Some understanding of any Basic developemental psychology before becoming parents might help some asshats stop hitting their damn kids. Like you really don't need to hit them lol.
But again just my opinion and idc how people raise their kids even if I disagree with it, unless there'd be some serious level abuse going on (which is when I'd call the police, but spanking is not one of these things, I just kinda side-eye/despise it). I'm just gonna think it's still bs.
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Just throwing this here. Not wanting to start an argument or anything but...
Proven fact: That a child learns best about certian things that they are not supposed to do through that pain.
of punishment. It shows them first hand what consequences that misbehavior of that sort can bring about which
later on in adult hood could result in something far worse than just a simple swat. That swat is painful yes, but it
teaches a very important lesson to the child.Β
Everybody can have their opinions about how they raise their children. And in my experience, children who were
disciplined with a spanking were far more respectful of people then those that weren't.Β
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i don't even remember what old ass comment of mine are u replying to but OK COOL STROY BRO
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the most epic ownage ever, oh my god
have a cookie with chocolate chips in it
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Ownage? Is that even a word? I wasn't trying own anything.
I just showed you a spelling error. Hostile much?
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In the internet pointing out spelling errors to random strangers often comes off as passive-aggressive and it's often used as a form of 'owning'. Just what I've learned from all the drama I've seen. But maybe I read you wrong.
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I was honestly not tying to start anything. I'm not oneΒ
of those ass hats that intentionally trolls people for a laugh.
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Oh yeah. I see. I'm sure I misread you then. xD π: 0 β©: 1
I myself have never been spanked in my life, but I still support corporal punishment.
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My brother gets spanked and he's still a piece of shitΒ :/.'Kids nowadays? Brats, every single one of them are brats.'Em,no?.Of course some are,but definetly not all.Stop generalizing.
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I agree. I feel like I am not disciplined enough. However, I do remain polite.Β
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Spanking is necessary and shouldn't be seen as abuse.
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Of course! Children need to be as brave as lions to handle intensely violent physical pain they'll have to feel in their asses in order to sacrifice inner ugliness that kids unknowingly engage in for essential inner beauty!
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If I do something wrong, I get my butt beat XD But when I look back later I realize I deserved it... most of the time.
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Yes! You must've been as brave as a lion to handle the intensely violent physical pain you had to feel in your ass from that as a kid!
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The truth is, I am polite because I want to. Punishment has nothing to do with it.
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Corporal punishment won't scare me. It would only piss me off.
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That gives me an idea.....
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It was also once acceptable to beat your wife.
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I just love this part of DA. So much logic.
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My mom had a riding crop. 
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Yes! You must've been brave!
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my father is the same with me but im never going to do that with my children. i been through it, it hurts me and im not going to put my kids in that position on how i felt when i was young.
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i never been a bratty kid, its when i make one single accident he bashes at me or when im helping him with something and i mess up one thing he will start calling me bad names and giving me threats and i was always scared of that. Β Β
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I was spanked as a child. As a result, I now suffer from a condition known as "respect for others".
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...and bravery is essential for doing so! No pain, no gain!
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I truly think it depends on the kid themselves. Like how they are raised, what their family life is like, their maturity levels, etc.
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Most times (at least from where I am), dudes tend to be the worst. For one, they are perverted, two, they are immature, and three, they are so messed up in the head and feel it is just okay to shoot anything they damn well please because they are 'hunters' (making it seem like hunting is so sacred, but you get my point).
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My brother never got smacked around not even when he kissed that girl in kindergarten full on the mouth he is a arrogant little shit
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So true. People think it will damage the kid but it doesn't.
My dad is a former Marine (once a Marine, always a Marine until they die!) and I used to get a smack upside the head if I got in trouble. Not hard but it'd get my attention, you know?
And my mom used a small section of newspaper (like one page maybe?) folded to swat me.
I'm a perfectly stable person.
I'm weird but that's just my personality. (And possibly because I'm ADHD "combined type")
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I can relate to everything you just said, right down to ADHD.
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Scientists come up with all kinds of bullshit reasons to not discipline a child. Now they say corporal punishment will make children aggressive and have a lower vocabulary, among other crap. If that was true, I wouldn't be such an easy-going person. Also, when I was a kid, I had such an expansive vocabulary compared to other small children that people sometimes thought I was older. So, yeah, I call bullshit.
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Oh, yes. Fight fire with fire. Totally logical and reasonable. Not at all detrimental to a child's health, self-esteem, or well being!
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Thank you for making this stamp. There are some evil children out there who deserve it (I'm looking at YOU, Bart Simpson!)
I don't believe the studies that corporal punishment turns children into criminals for one second. They did some survey once that said that 90% of prison inmates received corporal punishment. I can come up with the following explanations for this correlation:
1. The prison inmates were wild, destructive menaces as children who pushed their parents to their end of the ropes, which resulted in the parents using corporal punishment on their children.
2. The prison inmates lied about receiving corporal punishment in an attempt to get sympathy. That's not going to work with me.
By the way, I always thank my bus driver with "Have a nice day, Sir".
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I got smacked once or twice and I turned out fine.
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You must've been very brave to handle something like that!
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Thank you sir/madam. I am not a brat and I am a teenager. I actually listen to my parents and never get in trouble. Don't stereotype every teenager into one category. Just because someone wasn't in the military, doesn't mean that they're trouble. I never plan on going into the military, for I'm not willing to risk my life, I cherish it too much for that. Anyway I'm rambling here, but still. Not all teens are brats, I am simply one example. Good day
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Oh, and one more thing before I go I forgot to mention. Yes, I am ashamed of the way my generation acts. 3/4 of all the girls in my school have had sex or are pregnant/have a child. Luckily for me I was taught not to do such things.
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Yes. Roughly speaking, that is. However, my city is #1 in meth labs for the state too -.- Another fact of which I am not proud of.
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Glad to see an innocent, selflessly obedient teenager out there, which can easily prove that standing out can be highly beneficial, and highly beloved individuals can be some of those people including you for the reasons you just mentioned!
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Thank you. Though I am almost 20 now, and am on my way to heading to college. I am usually more of the standoffish, shy type, so I don't even stand out.
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