EastZombie [2014-12-19 17:13:49 +0000 UTC]
Wow! This is what transgender people need, someone telling them "oh, you’re just a confused homosexual".
Now, I can’t speak for any other transsexuals, but I can speak for myself in saying why every fibre of my being disagrees with this stamp:
I'm not a lesbian. I've never been a lesbian. I will never be a lesbian. The idea of lesbian sex does NOTHING for me. Heterosexual sex and gay sex turns me on, but lesbian sex, nothing. So don’t tell me I can still be pleasured by lesbian sex. I can’t be.
Gay sex, as in two men fucking, turns me on, especially if I’m one of the men involved. So I’m not "stuck on heteronormative ideals". But thanks for calling me, and all transsexuals, homophobic. Really! It's not like you're making a HUGE presumption based on false information, nor is it stereotyping, and we all know that transsexuals don't feel bad enough about themselves already (sarcasm)!
I am a pansexual man. WHAT?! Pansexual – I'll fuck anyone as long as I think they’re attractive (and if they'll fuck me, which isn't a lot of people). I could be with a man or a woman (although I think I’m too unpleasant of a person to be in a relationship with anyone).
If I loved a man, and he loved me, I could marry him and we could be a gay couple. If I loved a woman, and she loved me, I could marry her, and we’d be a straight couple.
Being a transsexual has components other than sexuality. Every time I see my titties, hips, or vagina, I just want to die.
Usually I don’t get emotional, but you... You really touched a nerve.
I'd rather be a eunuch than be a woman. I’d rather die during those "gruesome, painful surgeries" than be a woman (and it's gruesome and painful because we don’t have anaesthesia and painkillers). And I’ve never been mistreated because of my sex ONCE IN MY LIFE.
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HopeSwings777 [2014-12-06 15:27:18 +0000 UTC]
So FTM people are romantically interested in men?
Or maybe FTM people never have sex again? Lose interest in romance?
This is about self-image. People want the ideal life, the ideal couple. The beatiful romantic ideal of a man with a woman. A birde and a groom.
They need to stop thinking in those terms.
People do NOT regularly have a sex change in order to be a lesbian or gay individual! People who have sex change operation do NOT give up on romance and sex!They do NOT change genitals in order to become homosexuals OR asexuals!
It's about pairing up! Romantic fantasies! Fairy tales! They don't want to give up on the heteronormative ideals. A prince with his princess. A king and Queen. They aren't interested in two ruling Queens or two grooms at the altar.
A man doesn't become a woman so that he can be a nun.
A man doesn't become a woman so that he can have sex or romances with other women.
I don't wanna argue about this If I did want to debate it, I would start a forum thread on the subject. Comments are not suppopsed to be discussion forums.
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loudmouthedandbossy In reply to HopeSwings777 [2014-12-10 23:52:59 +0000 UTC]
Actually, FTM are VERY common, probably more so than mtf, you just can't tell because the transition goes a lot smoother and changing your body to one of a man is a lot easier than changing it the other way.
Do you even know what Dysphoria is? It's why trans people change their bodies, because even from a young age they look at their body and understand that it's the wrong one.
Yeah, it's okay to be gay-- most trans people are bisexual or pansexual anyway.
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Eyenoom [2014-12-06 14:52:32 +0000 UTC]
The problem is, that transsexual people who want a sex change will never feel comfortable with being the sex they was born as. Some transsexual people learn to live with not having their genitails changed and only stuff like hormones so they look more like the other sex and so on, but fact still is: They're not satisfied before they're the other sex, and that requires a sex change.
Transsexual people don't hate their 'womanhood' or 'manhood' because they were mistreated. They hate it because their mind, soul and everything is literally the other sex than the one they were born with.
And I don't see where it's so important to people that transsexual people don't get a sexchange. Who are it going to affect, other than themselves? Why should it affect you that someone you don't even know get their genitails changed?
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