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GalacticAbys [2019-11-01 15:34:52 +0000 UTC]
defenitely using
my boyfriend never understands me when I explain what asexual really means (im ace) ;w;
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xXEmpressAriesXx In reply to GalacticAbys [2019-11-18 12:44:09 +0000 UTC]
Yea, I just found out there's a huge chance of me being Asexual and I'm going to have to explain to my boyfriend about it. Not really looking forward to it.
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Tenebra-Fengari In reply to xXEmpressAriesXx [2019-11-20 18:57:26 +0000 UTC]
That's one of the main reasons why I'm nervous about the idea of getting into the relationship, honestly
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Zabinoir [2019-08-13 01:44:20 +0000 UTC]
I found this out about myself this year!
I had no idea that any of the Pride flags/colors actually had anything to do with me, but when I did my research, I realized that I'm asexual too.
I never saw the big idea with making out, tbh. But I'm glad that this wasn't just me.
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stoned-ocean-420 [2019-04-19 19:21:06 +0000 UTC]
βI randomly spawn babiesβ
FDGFGDGDF PERFECT
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Demoness18 [2019-01-11 15:18:28 +0000 UTC]
More people need to be aware of this. Sadly, in fiction, itβs hard to show asexuality...
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Kissasheep [2019-01-02 07:10:54 +0000 UTC]
absistence/whatever you call not having sex actually leads to sexual frustration
hate to say it to ya but
YER GON GET RAPED
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Queen-Fopsie In reply to Kissasheep [2019-11-09 03:02:57 +0000 UTC]
Abstinence and asexual are different
You choose abstinence
You don't choose to be asexual
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Kissasheep In reply to Demoness18 [2019-01-11 17:14:01 +0000 UTC]
sry i just fear asexuals will get raped
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Demoness18 In reply to Kissasheep [2019-01-11 17:17:57 +0000 UTC]
Changing the chemistry of our minds to crave sex wonβt stop such things from happening to us, if they do happen. Itβs usually about power...
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Kissasheep In reply to Demoness18 [2019-01-11 17:32:49 +0000 UTC]
i know i just fear someone will rape an asexual person
(ps on ur pfp: it's cool! i like PMMM too!)
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Demoness18 In reply to Kissasheep [2019-01-11 17:57:02 +0000 UTC]
You canβt tell sexual orientation by the face. Rape is a cruel thing done no matter what orientation the person being raped is...
(I see Homura as asexual, actually. Asexual, but deeply in love with Madoka. Fanon and I disagree on many things...)
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GalynSoo [2018-08-09 13:06:39 +0000 UTC]
i don't know what am i anymore
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CraftyAndArt [2018-07-20 00:24:20 +0000 UTC]
I highly agree to anyone who feels this way, (hey! im an asexual, too!) love is love. Let the colors of your flag shine through, and be you!
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puffi32 [2017-09-25 02:08:47 +0000 UTC]
"I randomly spawn babies?"
lmao, great stamp btw
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Corallianassa [2017-07-01 11:40:22 +0000 UTC]
-''
Does being an asexual doesn't mean you can't feel love for somebody else, that would just make you a heartless monster.''-
Offense takenΒ
Just kidding.
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NikoAccampora [2017-03-11 02:51:54 +0000 UTC]
There's one thing i don't understand about asexuals; they claim they don't feel/experience sexual desires or arousal, which begs the question: have they even TRIED sex before they can legitimately say if they do or don't like sex? I mean, they don't have the desires but what if they do it anyway? Can they still feel pleasure?
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anobouzu In reply to NikoAccampora [2017-03-24 02:22:44 +0000 UTC]
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and just consider this legitimate curiosity and not take it for the condescending tone it seems to carry (if you're not being purposefully condescending, my apologies, as text has a way of not really carrying actual tones across).
But my response, speaking as an asexual, would be thinking about asking this to any other person: would you go up to a straight man and tell him how does he know he's straight if he's never even BEEN with another man or tried gay sex before? Do you go to a lesbian and ask if they've even HAD sex with a male before deciding they were a lesbian?
The answer is no, you don't do that, because it's rude and invasive of someone's privacy. Whether an asexual has or hasn't had sex before is absolutely NONE of your or anyone's concern. In any case, being an asexual means you do not experience sexual attraction. Attraction is different from arousal.
You should also know that asexuality is an umbrella term; there are many different types of asexuals. There are some who don't experience any sort of sexual attraction or arousal at all and loathe sex, no matter whether it's fictional or real - and there are some asexuals who love the idea of sex, especially in pornography or media and support other people who love sex and experience arousal. And there's a whole range of asexuals that fall between those two sides of the spectrum. The point being, they all share the similarity of not experiencing sexual attraction.Β
Being an asexual does not mean one is incapable of experiencing arousal or sexual desires. Some have sex because it feels good/they like it but they won't ever feel an attraction to the person they're having sex with. Some have sex because it makes their partner happy and seeing their partner enjoying themselves makes them feel happy. And some asexuals are sex-repulsed and will never have sex and they don't need to have sex to know that they despise it.Β
Can they still feel pleasure?
I'm sorry, but that is a silly question and almost borders rude because "pleasure" is a broad term. Who doesn't feel pleasure? The pleasure from a hug, from doing something you enjoy, from doing something that feels good like taking a bath after a stressful day or getting a shoulder rub. But like any person, 'pleasure' can mean something different to every asexual. For one asexual, pleasure can be simply cuddling up to your partner and enjoying an evening in together - to others, pleasure can also include the sensual or sexual kind such as through masturbation or viewing pornography. Everyone is different and this applies to other sexualitiesΒ and even non-sexual cases as well. Just how not all men get pleasure from being with another man, or not everyone gets pleasure from partaking in anal sex, not all asexuals will view "pleasure" as the same. Some enjoy pleasure of the sexual or sensual kind while others abhor it and will not partake.Β
But to ask "can they still feel pleasure" is silly - that makes asexuals sound inhuman.Β
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NikoAccampora In reply to anobouzu [2017-03-24 03:13:01 +0000 UTC]
Thanks for clearing it up, and doing it big time even; these doubts have been itchin' on my noggin for quite a while now.
Sorry if i came off as a jerk or something; i was just really curious about this kind of sexual orientation.
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CosmosAndChaos [2017-01-13 23:42:31 +0000 UTC]
I am 100% aroace, though. Zero interest in sex, zero interest in romance.
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Digital-Reindeer [2017-01-07 23:20:31 +0000 UTC]
The density of this stamp is over 9000! I know this stamp is dense because I don't have a sexuality either
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BeesArtTrash [2016-08-29 14:29:13 +0000 UTC]
Using OwO
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EchoesOfAnEnigma [2016-07-03 17:11:48 +0000 UTC]
I think this is an awesome stamp and I'm so glad you put it out there to help clear things up for folks!Β I just learned what being an asexual meant about a month ago and it has made me feel SO much better about myself because now I understand that, like you, while everyone else was experiencing all these changes and attractions as teens it didn't do anything for me either.Β I wanted romance and love but sex just didn't interest me at all!Β In fact I find it a big turn off.Β Anyway this is awesome!Β Thanks for sharing your knowledge with others and sharing your own experiences in the description!
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KittyWolves123 [2016-04-27 12:23:18 +0000 UTC]
I feel like I'm asexual since I've never really had any true sexual desires... XD
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msnjar In reply to Tunder2510 [2016-07-25 13:58:02 +0000 UTC]
well, the scientific definition of asexual is to reproduce on your own
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KKlightdragon In reply to Tunder2510 [2016-06-05 05:32:32 +0000 UTC]
Whaaaat?
So normal people DON'T split into smaller clones of themselves?
I better go get that checked.
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invaderzimfan234 In reply to KKlightdragon [2016-08-03 04:32:18 +0000 UTC]
I'm sorry, but after the DNA Β tests we have confirmed, you're a starfish.Β
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Mi1kywayGa1axy [2016-04-23 00:47:09 +0000 UTC]
Some asexual people have sex though.
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axris [2016-03-18 21:43:04 +0000 UTC]
"Randomly spawn babies?"
i don't know about you but every like 30 minutes a baby randomly spawns near me, like about 1-2km away.
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sinfulness-me In reply to axris [2016-11-11 09:46:02 +0000 UTC]
u lived near the hospital ?
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axris In reply to sinfulness-me [2016-11-11 10:33:00 +0000 UTC]
CORRECTION: live near a hospital. present tense, sin.
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sinfulness-me In reply to axris [2016-11-11 10:34:37 +0000 UTC]
sorry ;n;
i don't main English in my country rip
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axris In reply to sinfulness-me [2016-11-11 12:09:18 +0000 UTC]
ah, my bad, i was making a joke.
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SatanicPomflakes [2016-02-08 00:25:57 +0000 UTC]
Proud Gray-Aromantic! <3
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xXArtistWolfXx [2015-10-29 21:44:22 +0000 UTC]
I am Asexual, too.
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Cianna200 [2015-09-06 15:29:47 +0000 UTC]
I am a gray-asexual, I barely feel sexual attraction, even though I am not a Buddhist (I like Buddhism) I also see sex as neutral, why? Because
1. Sex can be pleasurable (Suggesting it is good)
2. Sex creates the little ones (once again suggesting it is good)
3. Sex is an act of connection (so it must be good right?)
1. Β Sex is forced down people's throats, it is used to trap us and imprison our minds, and we are told we must have sex without question no matter how much it may hurt or feel icky ( it is probably bad)
2. Some people must have sex to have a meaningful life or else their life will fail (Suggesting that it is bad)
3. People use it as an excuse for selfishness which is all too common (suggesting it is bad)
4. It feels painful/uncomfortable for people (so it must be bad eh?)
5. Sexual attraction is often mistaken for romantic attraction, even love! (Bad)
I say sex is neutral based on these things, of course if you are asexual and don't have sex people are going to dismiss you as incapable of loving and that a romance without sex is not romance, it's friendship. It's about time humanity opens their eyes and learn to see that their interpretation of love needs some changing.Β
What If your romantic partner
1. Accepted you for you
2. Learned to get past your flaws and pros and just see a beautiful person
3. Was always there for you
4. Risked their life for you
5. Helped you to become a better person
6. Wished for your happiness over theirs
7. Β Was patient with you
8. Gave you up if it meant your wellbeing or happiness
9. Β Would rather die than cheat on you
10. Cared about you til the day they die
11. Laughed with you and cried with you
What if they did all this but never have sex with you, most people would immediately declare. "Not love because sex is missing!" Which is kinda sad, and even if this person didn't give you sex is it really worth losing them? You'll have to be a pretty mean person for that. Β
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