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Description Because, all of a sudden, hating things is wrong and makes you a bad person.

So I've gotten a lot of comments concerning my hate stamps, specifically the below:



Which is fine, mind you, even the ones who disagree with me (I welcome those the most). However, there are some that I've found to be rather odd. These would be on the topic of hate and why hate is wrong.

Hate isn't wrong nor is it a bad thing. It's okay to hate, whether you hate something or a person, or even a group of people. It's fine and perfectly normal to hate things.

Hate is an emotion, the polar opposite of love, but as much as these two are at different ends of the spectrum, people often forget that you cannot have one without the other, nor would you want to abolish hate itself.

I've heard some arguments that hate is wrong because it hurts people, offends, creates conflicts, some even die over it. Well, I could say the same about a few other things too, like love, guns, food, etc. Who is responsible for killing people? The person wielding the gun or the gun itself? What I mean is, people are quick to blame hate for everything, it's all hate's fault, rather than take responsibility for it themselves.

For one, hate is okay until you use it against someone or something, like using it as a weapon to hurt another. Only then does it become hatred and only then will I agree that it is wrong. Nevertheless, I hate radishes, am I a bad person because of it?

Secondly, hating something isn't an insult or an act of conflict. Vegetarians hate meat and meat production because it kills animals, so are they insulting meat eaters now? No, of course not, don't be stupid. But even if your opinion or ideal might offend someone, will you really spend your entirely life censoring yourself for the sake of others? I wouldn't want to be you in that case, sounds like a sad way to live.

Thirdly, for as much as people say hate is a bad thing, that it's wrong to hate things because it might offend someone, that it's unnecessary, etc., the same could also be said for love. Some people love fucking animals and/or children, so should we be okay with that simply because it's love? Frankly, I find this far more offensive than someone who hates religion, hates people, hates things and so on. There are people who use love as a weapon too, who abuse it, are addicted to it, hurt from it, and yet no one says we should abolish love?

So yeah, I hate stuff, in fact I hate a lot of stuff. I hate organised religion, I hate radishes, I hate orange hair, I hate smelly feet, I hate whiners, I hate racism, I hate people, I hate ugly games, I hate Nintendo, I hate Mario, I hate Jesus, I hate winter, I hate you, etc etc etc.

I fucking love to hate.

You're an imbecile for denying hate and equating it with hatred.

Stamp background by `DoItForTheLulz btw. Border is mine.
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Comments: 351

Queen-of-Ice101 [2018-07-02 05:43:30 +0000 UTC]

Random thought for you, but if you think about it hate and love aren't actually polar opposites. Whether you feel hate or love for someone it's a strong rush of emotion, it defines how you think of anything to do with that person/topic to a varying degree and it influences how we treat them or behave. And it's incredibly easy to slip from one to the other under the right circomstances. The real opposite is indifference, where that person or topic literally has no effect on a person. 

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BlackJill In reply to Queen-of-Ice101 [2018-07-03 01:22:08 +0000 UTC]

That's a good point. I'll remember that.

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k-o0 [2017-04-09 11:08:34 +0000 UTC]

m2

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A-Gaming-Fox22 [2016-12-27 16:06:12 +0000 UTC]

are you the person who said hating is against the rules on DA so they shouldnt hate in comments?
cause you do hate alot of things

im not against you, i agree with plenties of your stamps
im just stating what i've noticed

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BlackJill In reply to A-Gaming-Fox22 [2017-04-17 21:36:13 +0000 UTC]

What? Fuck no. That doesn't sound anything like me. Please, by all means, embrace your hate, because hate isn't necessarily a negative/bad thing. I think hate is great, so long as it doesn't involve denying anyone their human and/or civil rights. And hate isn't against ToS as long as it doesn't encourage violence against another person, or denying them some right.

Personally, I think it's fine if people hate homosexuals, people of certain races or religion, etc. So long as that hate remains an opinion or emotional reaction, not an action. If you act on that hate and cause someone harm, deny them their rights, censor them, etc., then yeah, I have a problem with that. I mean, we still allow the KKK, Westboro Baptist Church, Black Panthers, Scientology and other religious groups to exist even though they're full of hate. It would be ideal if they didn't exist, but there's not a whole lot we can do about that besides trying to educate people better about tolerance. Tolerance doesn't mean everything needs to be flowers and sunshine, it just means that regardless of how someone feels about X person, they're still tolerance to their existence and their rights as a human being.

I hate bigotry and intolerance. I hate complacency and willful ignorance. I hate religious extremism and discrimination against atheism. I also hate hypocrisy and SJW's, and extremist feminism. I hate a lot of things that aren't necessarily things that are bad to hate, so love your hate, nurture it properly, but also educate yourself on the things you hate. Don't just hate something blindly, because that's just ignorant.

Does that make better sense?

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A-Gaming-Fox22 In reply to BlackJill [2017-04-18 22:40:51 +0000 UTC]

yessir
makes perfect sence

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ToonerzChatz [2016-08-02 06:32:42 +0000 UTC]

2edgy4me

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xoxoMaxine [2015-08-02 01:13:27 +0000 UTC]

don't blame hate! 


BLAME CANADA!

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BlackJill In reply to xoxoMaxine [2015-08-02 14:02:03 +0000 UTC]

Fucking Canada...

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The-skilled [2015-01-30 02:09:03 +0000 UTC]

Can I use this?

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AsahiGirl [2014-12-31 20:57:14 +0000 UTC]

It's perfectly fine to hate stuff, but for crying out loud. Be happy about something!

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AdamantineClaws [2014-08-21 10:53:58 +0000 UTC]

You do not hate everything  

And yes, "Hate" is a verb from the noun "Hatred" or a commonly used shortcut for it.

Hate as an emotion itself is a bad thing from its definition. Objectively bad, both for you and your surroundings. Why? If you hate something, it means you simply can't stand the presence of something, which make you either avoid it with all your might, or make you want really badly to destroy the object/person/phenomenon you hate. If you really hate someone, you usually don't want to talk sense into the person, you most likely want to simply kill him/her. It is an extreme hostility towards something.

Yet, the phenomenon you are talking about is not hate [at least not an emotion called hate] but some trend that was born some time ago, for some reason named hating, where people are throwing the word hate around, trying to describe their feelings towards something which bothers them, they don't like, they despise, feel disgusted by, think it is stupid, and other shallow reasons, without knowing what the word really means. 

Yes, I myself often say I hate mosquitos, mayonnaise, getting up monday mornings, stupid politics who don't really care about anything aside of their own wallets, and other things that annoy me, it's not a crime to say it, but in fact, I don't really hate anything with real hatred. I just dislike those things.

So, there's nothing bad in saying you hate something that simply annoy you, everybody say so, but you know you don't really mean it in hate's true definition. True hatred is something that hardly ever occurs [so is true love ] but it can be expected that people may get upset if you say you hate something they created or believe in, because for them, it could as well mean that their beliefs or creations are so bad that you would destroy it with pleasure, which also make them think that you look down on them because they created/believe something that deserves such extreme emotion as hate from your side. At the same time if you used literal words describing how you feel about something, it would be less likely for the target to take personal offence. After all, we can't like all the things in the world.

If Haters are people who just disagree with stupidity, nonsense and absurd of the world and express their opinion, they are just fine, though, if you ask me, they would be more welcomed if they did not overuse the word "Hate" beyond its meaning. I mean it, more people would get their message rather than get upset. Everyone will understand if you will yell for example "I hate ants! they bit me so many times on the camp!" because they will know you didn't mean to insult the bug [if they are ant fans] or that you won't go starting a campaing to anihilate poor bugs, because you just said it like that, being angry, but when you use the world hate towards touchy subjects like someone's beliefs, don't blame people when they won't interpret that you personally disagree with them, but instead they will think that you are hostile towards their morals and you look down on them.

At least, that's how I think.

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heroined In reply to AdamantineClaws [2014-11-16 22:51:25 +0000 UTC]

Well... I think I can say something in this matter too.

I'm really grumpy person. Hate is the word I use most frequently of all, mostly because I'm misanthropic. I hate most things people do. It's not like I get annoyed by these things- I'm shaking from fury and disgust when I see these.
Otakus on street make me spit, I shut down laptop everytime I see canon-x-oc pairing. When I see a person making big deal out from they sexuality, no matter if they are hetero, homo or bi- I will try my hardest to make them cry. When a fanatic christian tried to convert me, I've lied that I'm satanist and I'll make her go to hell in the afterlife with Satan's help. When my teacher said untrue things in class few years ago and didn't let me correct her- I've ran out from class.
The list could go on.
There actually are people that hate everything, and really mean what they say. I believe that stamp's creator may have think similar way...
Sorry if I understood you wrong, forget it in such case XD

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AdamantineClaws In reply to heroined [2014-11-18 19:49:47 +0000 UTC]

Well... no offence, but having a fury attacks on sight of something that shouldn't affect you half that much [if anyhow] rather isn't a healthy sign, don't you think? At least I think it must make your life pretty miserable, feeling that much of hate on daily basis... I don't really know what it means to be misanthrope, but I grew to believe that animals are much more harmonical creatures than us... If they hurt each other, they do it because of an instinctual need, not from hate... If they have emotions like we do, it must take a lot of an ability to forgive [for example] to lionesses to accept a new male in their pride, even though it probably killed their cubs, or for a deer herds to not be charging at every single wolf or bear with killing intention because of the fact that these predators eat their herdmates. Even a caged pigeon is able to grow attached to the human who caught and caged it. I admire non-human creatures a lot for these reasons. Yet, even in that case... there must be some food you like, or even a person you like, at least one, or do you really literally hate everything?

There were only few times in my life when I was driven to a real fury, each time by the person who bullied me directly and intentionally, and these wasn't most pleasant experiences in my life, heck, I've got a lot of bad experiences with people in life, but I've already forgiven them because there wasn't a poit to hold the grudge to them... I think not thinking about them is healthier for my mind. Of course, I still don't like them, I won't trust them again even in thousand years, but I don't hate them eather. Other than that, if the person isn't intentionally hostile to you, you may grow to know her better, and even if she have some interests or features which make you angry or disgust you at first sight, you may see that she's actually not that bad as you thought. Fields of interests, way of dressing or beliefs doesn't automatically make other people incompatible with you. Even if you don't agree with them, they still may prove to be a really nice people, if you give them a chance.

In case of stamp, I believe author were just trying to justify internet hating and voicing one's negative opinion about something, which is often voiced through "big words" like hate. I was just trying to say that using big words doesn't really help their case, it just makes people upset instead of making them understand the message the haters are trying to express.

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heroined In reply to AdamantineClaws [2014-11-18 20:18:10 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, I don't think I'm 100% mentally healthly. Misanthropia is a disease after all! But it's fine from the other side... People try to get my affection so I'm rather popular... Anywaaay:
We're animals too, but since we've gotten no claws or talons, no sharp fangs or powerful jaws, no spikes or scales to protect ourselves- we've learned to use our brain more than physical strenght. As it comes to your examples.... Deers don't catch every single wolf, because a single wolf isn't a danger, and chasing it would be an energy waste. They are also really easily scared, because like the most of herbivores, they arent the smartest animals. They are afraid even of a single canine. They also don't know how to kill on purpose.
Lionesses accept new male because they want to reproduce and pass their genes further. Cubs die anyway in the dangerous habitat they live in. If this male won position in the pride, it probably is strong and has good genes to pass, decreasing lethality rate in future offsprings.
As of the pigeon- think of my country. It was torn apart into three pieces once, one held by Prussia, one by Austria and one by Russia. Russia and Prussia were really cruel to us, so people tried to rise a riot. Austria though was kind and generous- so nobody even thought of a fight. Same is with pigeon- it is well treaten, so it wont try to escape.

It doesnt work like this for me- if I don't like a single trait in a person- then I don't simply like that person. No matter how nice she is, how pretty she draws or how common interests we have- it's enough that she ships shipping I don't like for me to classificate her as uncompatible to me.

Well, as I always mean hate by hate... I glad people get upset then...

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AdamantineClaws In reply to heroined [2014-11-19 15:19:57 +0000 UTC]

Well I meant these examples in assumption as if animals would have similiar emotions to us, yet, just like I said animals act on instincts, so even if they do cruel things to other animals, even of their own kind, I don't think animals are even capable of feeling hatred

If you always mean hate by hate, then I guess my words don't apply to you, yet the author of this stamp apparently says to not equate her "hate" to hatred, so I wrote what I thought of using big words to make your opinion sound louder.

//A jeśli chodzi o rozbiory, w zaborze austriackim też były zapędy niepodległościowe, No i Austriacy nie byli wcale tacy niewinni, jeśli chodzi o traktowanie naszych rodaków. Jedynie nie robili tego tak otwarcie, po prostu poprzez manipulacje wykorzystywali podziały społeczeństwa polskiego [głównie pomiędzy chłopami i szlachtą] jako łatwy sposób tłumienia wszelkich zbrojnych zrywów, aczkolwiek nie można zaprzeczyć że traktowali nas przynajmniej 10 razy lepiej niż Prusy i Rosja... //

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heroined In reply to AdamantineClaws [2014-11-19 15:38:48 +0000 UTC]

Słuszne założenie, wątek zakończony I guess?

Dlatego nie walczyliśmy też tak bardzo- no a tłumienie poprzez podziały swoją drogą...


Czemu ciągle czytam twój username jako Hentai ;_;

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AdamantineClaws In reply to heroined [2014-11-19 21:25:09 +0000 UTC]

Hehe, You guessed right ;D

Czytasz mój login jako Hentai...? Może to wina styczności z anime? xD Nie no, chyba aż tak trudno się nie czyta, nie?

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heroined In reply to AdamantineClaws [2014-11-19 21:33:58 +0000 UTC]

Bo składa się z podobnych liter no!

Nie lubię animu, ale jako członkini BzMaO mam z nim styczność cały czas #ŚmierćOtakurwom
nie, nie aż tak trudno u-y

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AdamantineClaws In reply to heroined [2014-11-19 21:54:18 +0000 UTC]

Cóż, ja czasami jakieś anime obejrzę, zdarzają się i fajne [chociaż raczej ciężko takie znaleźć] ale specjalnie mnie to jakoś nie interesuje. Ot animacja, bywają lepsze i gorsze. I tak największy sentyment mam do starych bajek, np. Mustanga z dzikiej doliny, Króla lwa, Małej syrenki i tym podobnych

I chyba właśnie kompletnie odeszliśmy od tematu xD

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heroined In reply to AdamantineClaws [2014-11-19 21:59:42 +0000 UTC]

Nie mam nic do amino ale otakuuuu

Boże król lew kocham

Tak XD

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SporeDiatrymisss [2014-08-09 20:28:13 +0000 UTC]

Now wnhen I think about it, there's only one thing in the universe I really and seriously hate and that's mosquitos (ASDKLMFNBHJGTRYOQ). The rest of the wold stretches to a maximum of light dislike. I actually LoOOoOOOOVe more stuff than I dislike, and I find that... unique...

(((Even if I kinda miss hating nonsense, for some reason, I dump the hate in somewhere-land and to the things most people wants to ducking burn in my kitty's litter box, I manage to just dislike them, or I moove and concentrate all my hate on those. little. wonkers. known as... mosduckingquitos burritos crap load of death and suffering of FEEAARRRRRRRRRRHhhhh)))

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berdenette [2014-07-03 05:01:19 +0000 UTC]

Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is. Hate and love are both passionate emotions. you can hate hunger in your community and volunteer at the food bank, an obvious act of love. If you're indifferent, you just don't give a shit. people can go hungry, starve to death, be raped, whatever. you don't care. you are right when you say "hate" and "hatred" are not the same thing. most people associate "hatred" as "the act/ result of hating." personally, I think both focusing on everything you hate is like poison. It does things to you. Making a contentious effort to smear hate or hatred everywhere must be exhausting.

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Thrashcatt In reply to berdenette [2014-12-07 17:41:23 +0000 UTC]

"I DO COCAINE!"

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Carriejokerbates [2014-07-02 02:04:47 +0000 UTC]

and i also hate Elsa & Anna as a lesbian couple YUCK i only love them as sisters and never a couple and i hate hans & anna and i hate kristoff & elsa and i even hate hans & kristoff another FUCKING YUCK GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR                                the only couples i like are Kristoff & Anna and Hans & Elsa and that's it FUCK THOUS OTHERS I MECTION AND HATE GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

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Carriejokerbates [2014-07-01 23:33:17 +0000 UTC]

I FUCKING HATE THIS EVIL HEARTLESS BITCH I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER         AND HERES THE LINK TO THAT EVIL BITCH THAT MADE MY LIFE HELL queenthranduilinda.deviantart.… SHE IS SO MEAN AND SO NASTY AND SUCH A SONBY BITCH I HATE HER FOR BLOCKING ME 1 FUCKING YEAR AGO WHAT A MEAN NASTY EVIL BITCH FUCK HER FUCK HER FUCK HER                         FUCK YOU CRISTLA FUCK YOU YOU ARE THE WORST FRIEND EVER AND YOU REALLY HURT MY FEELINGS YOU MEAN AND NASTY AND I WISH YOU TELL ME WHAT I DID TO MAKE YOU BLOCK ME BUT NOW I DON'T WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND ANYMORE AND I WISH I NEVER MET YOU AND I WISH YOU WOULD JUST LET ME FAVE YOUR DRWINGS AND THAT'S IT NOTHING MORE BUT NO YOU JUST HAVE TO BLOCK ME WELL THAT'S IT I HAD IT I'M DONE WITH YOU FOREVER YOU ARE MEAN AND NASTY AND A REAL FUCKING SNOB I DON'T BLOCK YOU JUST BECUSE YOU LIKE WHAT I DON'R LIKE OR YOU HATE WHAT I LIKE AND STUFF THAT IS REAL IMAMTURE AND CHILDISH AND CRULE AND THAT IS WAHT YOU ARE MISSY YOU ARE A HORRABULE HUMEN BEING AND NOW I CAN'T STAND YOU AND I NOW WISH I NEVER MET YOU YOU SUCK AND NOW I'M LEVVING YOU FOREVER FUCK YOU AND GOOD BY YOU UNGREATFULL SNOBY MEAN SPERITEED EX-FRIEND IN THE WORLD GOOD BY YOU EVIL BITCH    

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BlackJill In reply to Carriejokerbates [2014-07-01 23:54:51 +0000 UTC]

Feel better?

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Carriejokerbates In reply to BlackJill [2014-07-02 00:20:23 +0000 UTC]

yes yes i do now

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KawaiiDesuChan12 [2014-06-14 08:01:26 +0000 UTC]

Hate is fucking shit! I HATE IT! cd:

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Ihatebeingmale [2014-01-05 16:27:58 +0000 UTC]

Ditto

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Kradok [2013-10-27 12:19:18 +0000 UTC]

I hate to like this stamp

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DrivenToInsanity [2013-08-10 08:37:59 +0000 UTC]

... need I say more? ^^

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KooboriSapphire [2013-05-09 05:53:27 +0000 UTC]

Don't you just love it when those Anti-Hate preachers come to you page & start bitching & whining about it? People who hate have as much a right to post what we hate as much as those preachers have the right to post what they like. If they want the world, especially the internet, to kiss their ass then they need to get out of their mom's house & learn that the world, no matte how they see, is not constructed or run just on love.

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GodOfCoffee In reply to KooboriSapphire [2013-07-25 02:23:19 +0000 UTC]

Wow what the fuck? All they need is to shut the fuck up, nobody cares about gay-ass antihate shit. It just pisses you off more!

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KooboriSapphire In reply to GodOfCoffee [2013-07-25 20:27:52 +0000 UTC]

Exactly.

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kevinjorg [2013-04-25 14:21:14 +0000 UTC]

[link]

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AkaKurosaki [2013-04-19 20:19:04 +0000 UTC]

I love/hate everything.

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GodzillaKrueger [2013-03-14 21:00:48 +0000 UTC]

Hate is my power and I fucking love it.

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starwarsfandude3 [2012-12-20 02:23:06 +0000 UTC]

I hate stairs. I hate schools. I hate planes. I hate walking. I hate doctors.

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MetellaStella In reply to starwarsfandude3 [2013-03-30 21:15:46 +0000 UTC]

Good luck with that diabetes or heart attack. ._.

Hopefully you hate the school system, not learning itself?

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starwarsfandude3 In reply to MetellaStella [2013-03-30 22:18:04 +0000 UTC]

No just the buildings.

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ProtoCross [2012-11-19 16:20:22 +0000 UTC]

i hate stupid people

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Starspirit160 [2012-08-01 03:03:25 +0000 UTC]

I hate my life....

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JessyCarmona In reply to Starspirit160 [2012-09-20 02:49:29 +0000 UTC]

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JessyCarmona In reply to Starspirit160 [2012-09-20 02:46:40 +0000 UTC]

[link]

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Starspirit160 In reply to JessyCarmona [2012-09-20 02:50:42 +0000 UTC]

???

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JessyCarmona In reply to Starspirit160 [2012-09-20 02:52:30 +0000 UTC]

I'm weird so don't mind me.

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Starspirit160 In reply to JessyCarmona [2012-09-20 03:13:34 +0000 UTC]

No, it's ok. Everybody is wierd.

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JessyCarmona In reply to Starspirit160 [2012-09-20 03:36:02 +0000 UTC]

cool

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UNDEAD-Tomato In reply to Starspirit160 [2012-09-14 13:50:42 +0000 UTC]

looool

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