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Published: 2010-10-10 16:10:54 +0000 UTC; Views: 2822; Favourites: 40; Downloads: 4
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Comments: 94

unborn-flower [2013-06-06 01:01:29 +0000 UTC]

YES!!! FINALLY!!! XDXDXDXDXD

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Capricious-Spider [2013-06-03 21:54:17 +0000 UTC]

I can appreciate this secret xD

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cherryblossombliss [2013-05-22 02:06:49 +0000 UTC]

i think i agree with 8931... no hard feelings to 8913 though

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Songbirdsecret [2011-05-31 01:42:37 +0000 UTC]

ever heard of this lovely rule that goes 'if you don't have something nice to say SHUT THE HELL UP?'

this place is meant for people to be open. and people like You are scaring them off! you should be ashamed.

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kurai88 [2011-03-09 22:29:35 +0000 UTC]

fully agree, ST. most emos do tend to think that they're the only ones with problems (or perhaps 'problem's'? ha ha).

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MemoriesOfErika [2010-11-04 14:52:05 +0000 UTC]

You know what I don't understand? When people take a secret personally. Far as I can see? The ST wasn't talking to you. They were against the very same thing you're talking about. 'Stereotyping.'

Funny how you're arguing against each other when you're arguing from the SAME POINT OF VIEW.

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NaraKell [2010-10-13 01:11:54 +0000 UTC]

Hum... I don't think that being revolted against discrimination makes them whiny baby. Emo are not necessarily asking for attention, they usually have real problems and deal with them in that way, they don't do that just for attention. I think that secret was for people who have been horrible to the ST or people they know.
I just don't think it's fair to judge them that harsh.

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MayContainBirdseed [2010-10-12 19:23:40 +0000 UTC]

Dear ST,
I know what you mean. I won't mention names or their relation to me, but I DEFINITELY hear where you're coming from. The best we can do with people like that is
a) feel relieved that after graduation/switching jobs we'll be rid of them for eternity
b) kindly tell them to shut their whining traps and that there are worse things in life
c) ignore them.
I'm here if you need to rant.
Sncerely,
~SK

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Reba-Joy [2010-10-12 15:16:24 +0000 UTC]

I suppose I can agree with both STs.

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RavenRandom [2010-10-12 14:15:16 +0000 UTC]

WOOT!

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TravellingSoldier [2010-10-11 07:11:23 +0000 UTC]

^^ Nice!! xDDD

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GoatasaurusxGoat [2010-10-11 02:17:48 +0000 UTC]

Love this.

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Little-Dante [2010-10-10 23:02:15 +0000 UTC]

Secret wars again? Seriously? Shouldn't this sort of thing kinda be weeded out, I mean it just means readers have to put up with it landing in their inbox =/ Maybe ST 8913 shouldn't have posted this secret if they knew the person it was aimed at might see it, and ST 8931 should be mature and take it on the chin...

On the other hand; can't we all just get along?

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jsplollypop [2010-10-10 22:45:21 +0000 UTC]

I'll have to agree with the apostrophe part. That bothers me too xD
About the rest, I have no opinion to share whatsoever.

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mynameisjade [2010-10-10 21:12:50 +0000 UTC]

Why was this secret even allowed?

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EmiHerro In reply to mynameisjade [2010-10-11 21:43:56 +0000 UTC]

I agree- this is supposed to be a safe place for sharing secrets without judgement. and this is blatant disrespect for that ST. IMO this should be removed.

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Miotas-Sisceal In reply to mynameisjade [2010-10-10 22:26:05 +0000 UTC]

Why not? It's a secret the ST has that he/she didn't want to share in the comments. It's no more/no less entitled to be submitted than any other judgmental secret.

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Onyx-Jade In reply to mynameisjade [2010-10-10 22:13:47 +0000 UTC]

'''''my'''thought's''''exactly'''

(just using apostrophes to bother the ST )

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rosemella-scent [2010-10-10 19:41:29 +0000 UTC]

I think what ST 8913 meant was that emotions are hard to control, and they more strongly affect some than others, and those others are (as) inconsiderate (as some of those with tougher hormones).

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TodayWasAFairytale [2010-10-10 19:38:38 +0000 UTC]

Wow..... Can't you just leave them alone! They're already mad at people, so why not try to help them out instead of tearing them down! It's people like you that they're mad at and if you don't want to try to help them or at least be nice, then fuck off! Leave them alone and live your-own life.

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MidsummerDawn [2010-10-10 19:23:38 +0000 UTC]

I think both of you need to stop whining on dA secret, and talk to each other face to face. Jeez, no one here can give you good advice here because both of these secrets a so biased!

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hentaibunnyinc [2010-10-10 19:22:35 +0000 UTC]

Anyone else find it amusing that 8913 and 8931 just have the last 2 numbers swapped?

I have no opinion on either of these. I agree that posting what would normally be a comment as a secret is kinda lame, but I also agree this secret can be true but ONLY if it's in context with the other one. If the "emo" one was aimed at someone in particular, then this secret is sort of null and void. We'll never know.

Also, how in the WORLD did a secret and its response manage to be only 18 secrets and a handful of days apart?

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Yuui-Sensei [2010-10-10 19:06:09 +0000 UTC]

Can't people just accept that no one is perfect, or wholly right or wrong?
8913 doesn't have impeccable grammar and may not understand that everyone deals with problems differently, and 8931 is judgmental and a tad closed-minded.

So what?

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gaarakamaru [2010-10-10 18:49:48 +0000 UTC]

I think this is a little unfair. The ST may have been addressing a particular person; you have no way of knowing. I agree it probably was an unfair general address, but you're no better than ST if you assume.

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Yeah---yeah In reply to gaarakamaru [2010-10-11 21:00:22 +0000 UTC]

Agreed. ST's as bad as... as... other ST.

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Minndi In reply to gaarakamaru [2010-10-11 03:11:35 +0000 UTC]

Thank you. I was going to say something along these lines.

Maybe the ST wasn't generalizing, but commenting about a particular person that they do, in fact, know well.

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gaarakamaru In reply to Minndi [2010-10-11 07:59:09 +0000 UTC]

Exactly

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Heavy-hearted [2010-10-10 18:48:07 +0000 UTC]

If this secret was a comment, the user would be facing retributions.

I hate it when secrets are allowed to bash other secrets. Is it supposed to be less painful this way?

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Shelagnoa In reply to Heavy-hearted [2010-10-10 19:17:21 +0000 UTC]

I'm disgusted by this secret - thank you for saying what I was planning to.

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LivingxXxProof [2010-10-10 18:43:26 +0000 UTC]

YES! PROPS! This is exactly what I had wanted to say.
You, ST, are my new hero. <3

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rettemich1989 [2010-10-10 18:35:01 +0000 UTC]

oh wow, someone didn't get enough pot today now did they? This ST, doesn't really deserve to be on DAS!

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rcsi1 In reply to rettemich1989 [2010-10-10 22:04:21 +0000 UTC]

How does this not deserve to be on DAS when Nazi-sympathizing and "yes I raped her. She deserved it" type secrets are included in DAS?

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rettemich1989 In reply to rcsi1 [2010-10-10 22:14:21 +0000 UTC]

wait what? im sorry, that was my friend that put that....shes a littl angst riden alot...talk to her here --->

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TryNotToSmile [2010-10-10 18:29:11 +0000 UTC]

I have kind of mixed emotions on this, but I completely understand where you're coming from.

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Eearii [2010-10-10 18:26:16 +0000 UTC]

For those who are bitching how people shouldn't bitch about venting, ST 8913 was venting, and stereotyping, two separate groups.
People can get offended over that, just as likely as that ST will be offended by this.
So kindly stop with the hypocrisy, please.

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jaboodi [2010-10-10 18:22:20 +0000 UTC]

If you're going to get upset by people venting about their problems I would stop watching DAS.

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EmiHerro In reply to jaboodi [2010-10-11 21:47:44 +0000 UTC]

3rd'd

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TodayWasAFairytale In reply to jaboodi [2010-10-10 19:41:23 +0000 UTC]

Agreed!

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Yuui-Sensei In reply to jaboodi [2010-10-10 19:06:34 +0000 UTC]

2nd'd

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Catcat222 [2010-10-10 18:16:23 +0000 UTC]

I /sort of/ agree with this, but at the same time not. ST 8913 is probably feeling really crap if they've read this, and I get how they feel about those people who say "oh my life sucks" when it clearly doesn't. And emos /aren't/ stupid whiney babies who cant deal with their emotions.
Okay, I agree with the "learn how to use an apostrophe", and please no-one have a go at me if writing this I misuse some grammar And I agree with "black and white categories" and "you're not the only person who has 'real' problems" But still. There's no point flaming someone for letting their emotions out in a secret. They probably even knew that what they were feeling isn't what they SHOULD be feeling :/

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RocketQueen13 [2010-10-10 18:00:40 +0000 UTC]


I don't really mind the feeling-venting part of their secret, but... they were definitely one of those emos, if you get my drift. The "I hate all preps, and they never have any real problems, only I and other emos have them! Ever!" ones.
I would probably defend them if they didn't generalize others so bad while complaining that the other person was stereotyping them or whatsit.

Something tells me a little non-physical "smack," some stinging reason, would help them come to their senses a little.

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TheFabulousMomo [2010-10-10 17:41:06 +0000 UTC]

The reason I have to agree with this secret, although I realize it's probably unecessary evil, is because I have a problem with supposingly called emos (it's a personal thing), and judging by the secret that was sent (secret 8913), I can tell what kind of "emo" sent it. The black and grey toning in the background and the red lettering, the anime-like drawing (in a somwhat early stage, if you get my drift) and especially the bloody tears, and even the choice of words just pretty much shows what kind of "emo" sent that secret, and I have to tell it's the kind that makes me agree with this ST. I'm sorry if I ofended anyone who happens to be an "emo" but doesn't really fit into the stereotype, but fuck if that isn't life, for one person's mistake, we all have to pay for it, and to the ST 8913, your pain isn't any bigger than everyone elses, and you're not a special snowflake. Sorry..
Although I have to agree with what's been said before me, no need to complain about someone complaining... it's a vicious cicle...

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rcsi1 In reply to TheFabulousMomo [2010-10-10 22:02:08 +0000 UTC]

I completely agree with this comment.

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TheFabulousMomo In reply to rcsi1 [2010-10-14 23:21:29 +0000 UTC]

Aw thanks

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Kill-Natalie [2010-10-10 17:38:25 +0000 UTC]

i love this. can we have sex?

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Necromancer-Staff [2010-10-10 16:57:49 +0000 UTC]

I thought that person was a whiny baby too.

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Akatsuki-Temari47 [2010-10-10 16:52:30 +0000 UTC]

You don't have to complain about people complaining.

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Writer-Girl1993 [2010-10-10 16:48:50 +0000 UTC]

Right on! I agree with you entirely, ST!

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LydiaLingenfeld [2010-10-10 16:33:39 +0000 UTC]

Let's go back to kindergarten where we were taught a simple lesson:
Everyone is different... No one is created equal.

As in, people deal with their own shit in different ways. Some have to vent or "whine" about it.
Yeah, sometimes it can get annoying but that's why you just ignore it, not strike out against it and make the situation worse.
If you're tired of people whining, then don't say such rude things that will cause them to be MORE upset.

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rcsi1 In reply to LydiaLingenfeld [2010-10-10 22:01:01 +0000 UTC]

And they'll use it as an excuse to be even more of a whiner.

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