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IvoryAlmonds [2017-06-12 15:57:28 +0000 UTC]
My mother always told me to never shave because of what it does and how it grows back in such a disappointing way. This is from her experience. She said that she adores my "thick" eyebrows and leg hair. Granted she also told me that it wasn't too little nor too much.
I never shaved UNTIL today and that's just my armpit hair. I didn't shave because I looked 'ugly' nor did I feed on the media's representation of a beautiful woman. Sorry but I am no waxed up barbie doll. I did it because it made me uncomfortable, it was hard to maintain hygiene wise ESPECIALLY in hot weather, and it was very irritable. I wanted it to go.
I get why people shave nowadays. Though not because of media. Girls shouldn't ever look at the media and try to shape themselves into an idealized picture of what is beautiful. Its great to have self awareness about your body/work out. I am not saying not to take pride or inspiration; but find balance.
When I say inspiration I mean trying to eat healthy, keep your body in a healthy state, maintain hygiene, and attempt to HEALTHILY transition to a comfortable goal. Not stop eating, making yourself throw up, wax everything to look good in media's eyes, ect.
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iClubBabySeals [2016-04-11 03:30:21 +0000 UTC]
How are they not?
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TheHollster [2013-09-20 19:42:39 +0000 UTC]
I have never shaved and don't plan too. My boyfriend said he would be a hypocrite if he held leg hair against me. I do find it ridiculous that women are expected to shave these days, its whats on the inside that counts, not the outside.
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XxThatCreepyGirlxX [2012-10-07 23:07:43 +0000 UTC]
Well what if some women feel uncomfortable with being hairy? I tweeze my eyebrows when they start to get bushy, I shave my armpits and legs, and I would be devastated if I started growing a mustache. I feel like a homeless person when I don't and I think that if women want to shave, they should do it and they don't need to be called out by so-called "feminists" and be accused of "submitting the the patriarchy".
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justjukka In reply to XxThatCreepyGirlxX [2012-10-14 04:13:38 +0000 UTC]
The problem is that we've been told from day one that it's wrong to have hair, so most women don't have anything to compare it to. I'm sorry my decision makes you think "homeless".
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XxThatCreepyGirlxX In reply to justjukka [2012-10-14 22:38:12 +0000 UTC]
I'm not insulting you for your own personal decision, but that doesn't mean that other people aren't allowed to personally disagree with it and maybe not do it themselves. It's just a matter of preference.
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justjukka In reply to XxThatCreepyGirlxX [2012-10-17 17:14:46 +0000 UTC]
I'm happy that you realize that. We need more people to understand it.
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Raviskool [2012-07-23 09:34:55 +0000 UTC]
The funny thing is mammals are named after the mammary glands or the breasts ducts. In other words, we are named after boobs (literally) and women are pretty much the reason why we have the name mammal fur aside.
Anyway, I believe women should choose to shave or not without being condemned for their choice.
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Raviskool In reply to justjukka [2012-07-26 15:30:18 +0000 UTC]
Your welcome! Yeah i have always wondered about these double standards. Other countries i see have it worse (women can even show there faces in public and cannot be outside unless with a man) but us being free, should equal rights and be able to chose not to shave or shave their legs and expose their chests without any backlash.
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kapieren [2011-07-23 18:40:55 +0000 UTC]
I shave my legs mostly because i will look like a chimpanzee with mange if I don't. If i had lighter body hair I wouldn't lol.
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YamiLess [2011-07-05 23:57:36 +0000 UTC]
pfff you know how much time do you waste shaving?
I'd rather do more productive things, thank you very much.
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justjukka In reply to YamiLess [2011-07-09 03:40:52 +0000 UTC]
Agreed! Especially since there's no point to it!
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blueheron93 [2011-06-01 22:55:40 +0000 UTC]
I only shave my armpits, and only because I don't like the way it feels-stubble scratches and longer hairs irritate the area.
Other than that, I shave nothing. HAIRY LEGS FOREVER!!!
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justjukka In reply to RMXTrailMix [2011-03-05 17:00:04 +0000 UTC]
Bodybuilders and swimmers strip their body of hair all the time. I'm neither (though I do enjoy the occasional swim) so I feel no great need to shave my legs. I still shave my underarms, though, but I know a lot of men who do as well, including my husband. If we don't, we can easily smell ourselves at the end of the day. I don't like being able to smell myself.
I can sympathize with your position, though. It seems that, for similar reasons, my family wanted my ears pierced. As though, if I did not get them pierced, I'd turn into a boy. Well, I haven't punctured my ears since I was ten, and I still have both my X chromosomes.
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RMXTrailMix In reply to justjukka [2011-03-09 03:03:14 +0000 UTC]
LOL.
I have begun to admire you.
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dracotheferret [2011-02-01 19:54:26 +0000 UTC]
I only shave my underarms and legs if I'm wearing a swimsuit or something. The extra hair in the winter helps keep me nice and warm :3
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justjukka In reply to dracotheferret [2011-02-02 02:13:46 +0000 UTC]
Why do you shave your legs, otherwise?
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dracotheferret In reply to justjukka [2011-02-02 02:29:56 +0000 UTC]
I guess it's just habit from high school and being insulted for not doing it. The hair is actually light enough so I don't have to do it often, (only about once every 2 months). As for the underarms, I do start to reek like a frat boy if I don't keep them trimmed, considering the ridiculous amount of excercise I get every day.
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celfydd In reply to justjukka [2016-03-24 14:53:54 +0000 UTC]
I just let it all grow. I do quite a bit of sport too, but I wash at least twice a day (sometimes more) and I don't smell. I have quite a lot as well, evidence in my gallery.
But like you say, whatever works for you, and just don't be intimidated - it's your body.
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ephoria516 [2010-08-18 22:18:10 +0000 UTC]
I don't shave because people expect me to, I shave because I choose to. I don't feel any pressure either way, it's just a personal preference.
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justjukka In reply to ephoria516 [2010-08-19 02:13:24 +0000 UTC]
That's fine. The problem is, most people don't know where that personal preference began, so they expect it of everyone else.
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ephoria516 In reply to justjukka [2010-08-19 02:33:15 +0000 UTC]
I suppose. I don't really care if other women choose to or not, that's their decision to make. Some of us like to just because, some do it because they feel like they have to, others don't at all because they don't want to. Whatever you choose is fine.
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linawifeofL [2010-05-03 20:52:47 +0000 UTC]
I think the definition is a vertibrae, which the females of the species produce milk for their young...
But also true. Gotta dig the European nations where hair is fair. I mean...women couldn't even shave until like, the twenties, maybe? Who freaking cares, is what I'd like to know, if I have to stare at guys' nasty mammoth legs all day long then I do not expect complaints if I do the same.
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theoreticalIdentity In reply to justjukka [2010-05-27 12:33:28 +0000 UTC]
Exactly, it's not like this has been done since the beginning of time like some people seem to think.
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justjukka In reply to Bastet3940 [2010-04-14 00:55:57 +0000 UTC]
I hear you, there. I have a few close girl friends, but growing up, most of our friends were boys. Society may think it ironic, but they accepted us for who we were (without trying to get into our pants, so said society can stick it), while Cosmopolitan Magazine's perfect girls sniped about what we were doing wrong. I won't even pretend to understand their type.
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Kikirini [2010-04-13 21:05:58 +0000 UTC]
Uh, who said otherwise? 0_o
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justjukka In reply to Kikirini [2010-04-13 21:26:48 +0000 UTC]
People who expect women to be hairless.
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